Recently I lost two close friends. They were husband and wife and were in their early 60's. They were both therapists and spent their lives working with people to help them live fuller more sane lives. Susan fought a 7 year long battle battle with cancer, Michael was apparently perfectly healthy. A month before Susan died, Michael was hospitalized with what was thought to be a stroke. It turned out to be a highly agressive brain tumor. He died within 2 weeks. Susan died two weeks later. When I was talking with one of our Mexican friends who knew them he said, "It's magic". "I have heard this happening with older couples but never with two people who were so young". Having been a Buddhist for many years, I have had the 4 noble truths drilled into my head for a long time. I have heard more lectures on the doctrine of impermanence than you can shake a stick at. In a real way I am one of a group of friends who have entered the Bardo with them. We are all trying to find our way in a culture that does not functionally recognize the realm beyond life.
This is for Michael and Susan.....